Maybe You could be the one that you have found someone ? do you ? it could be your new relationship is how to make the best marvel? your own fears or concerns about this particular person with the time are spent. Some problem you can see and you want to solve them ? right ?
Give many time appreciations rather than complaints or criticisms... Every time You are about ,"you forget....say , "you did not do it" ... "if you just ask yourself is that greatly appreciated. If not , ignore the complaint..... If you lead , you will find a partner that will follow you , and Your relationship will be filled with gratitude and joy.
Express yourself: At some point you must get complaints..... Something that makes you impatient and don't afraid to say it.. As long as you are not blaming and shaming, it's okay to bring difficult topics. You have your own opinion, though , about the situation,.. leave some room for curiosity. you have an interesting , surprising , and may appear in the conversation yourself...
Maintain curiosity , be clam and clear: Before you speak , be sure that you calm , clear and make curious.... when you think clearly then you can get your point across more powerful, and you will have a better chance of being heard. No body like to listen when they are being attacked..
Don't try to solve problems just solve the situations: Yeah i am sure , you think i am kidding,. nope actually , happy couples also have problems just as unhappy couples have, but happy couples have more time to discuss about problems.
Give your best in difficulty: You have to give your best in difficult situations ,then you won't have to wondering if you are the problem. Don't get into any trap. Don't feel proud in difficult situations , stay calm , connected , and clear.
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